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“Closing” means to seal the deal; there are various levels, including NC, or Number Close, where you get her phone number, KC, or Kiss Close, where you kiss her, and of course FC. The dubious ethics If you didn't think deliberately targeting women with low self-esteem was bad enough, a lot of PUAs base their techniques on something called “neuro-linguistic programming” or NLP.
It's purportedly a form of hypnosis, similar to what Paul Mc Kenna might use on you if you wanted to think yourself thin.
The misogyny Although a lot of the teachers in this community, if that's the word, claim that they are just trying to help men be more confident around women, the jargon and the advice often strays into profoundly uncomfortable territory. One teacher who we have already mentioned says that it is important not to get nervous when meeting a woman, adding: “Ted Bundy, the infamous serial killer/sociopath, didn't feel fear or panic when he saw a target.
He felt rage, sexual perversion and desire to kill.” Yes, you have been advised to use Ted Bundy as a role model in your dealings with women.
But a misunderstanding of complex ideas seems to be at the heart of a lot of pick-up artistry.
One PUA, a fat man called Gem, once told The Times that Richard Dawkins' The Selfish Gene taught him “everything I know about pick-up”.
The aforementioned Neil Strauss went under the pseudonym of “Style”. Others have called themselves “Juggler”, “Formhandle”, “Ice Dragon” (seriously), and perhaps best of all “Gunwitch”.
The clothes According to the literature, a true Pick-Up Artist stands out from the crowd – hence the preposterous names.
There is a lot of talk of “alpha males” and “beta males” and “psychological anchoring”.
They use Displays of High Value (DVH) to impress women with LSE (Low Self Esteem).