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I had an experience a while back in which a young lady informed me, prior to any sexual activity, that she had genital herpes.She told me what she knows about it and suggested I do some research and educate myself. Question: How would YOU view a prospective sexual partner informing you of their issue, and how would you handle the situation? You'd be surprised how many people have misconceptions about genital herpes. Are you afraid to tell a potential partner that you are infected? Are you afraid you can spread this to someone else?She might feel a little better once she knows what she's dealing with. Herpes is one of your least bit worries when it comes to STDs there are so many worst ones out there..you tell that to her...a model who is so stuck on herself and body.. Well they would no longer be a prospective make-out partner let alone sexual partner I don't care about misconceptions and the fact that it won't kill you like other STDs can, I still think it is nasty and wouldn't want to catch a case of it... I like the fact I never get sick and would hate to catch something like that that can spring up on you at any time.. we abstained till she was checked out and split before the results came in. This young lady contracted it from her partner during what she thought was a 3 year monogomous relationship.even coldsores creep me out I remember seeing the pictures in some of my mom's medical nursing books (I used to try and gross out my friends with the pictures as a kid)and then again when I was in college and was taking some anatomy/physiology and other bio related courses I got to see some more of the outbreaks... i studied up on it and found there are shields available to prevent infection. supposedly they work but i still would be leary of it. Apparently he was doing a little sleeping around and brought home someone else's luggage. don't think the prevalence is as high as 1 in4, although it might be that within a large city..even so, if a person is nice enuff to disclose it then its up to the other partner as to what the next step should having this infection, i would have to decline and probably end the relationship as much as it may hurt!Yes they were brave enough to tell me and I would thank them that they did, but I would most likely be honest and say nothing would happen because of it. I know THREE PEOPLE who got genitlal herpes by their selfish prick-of-a-person partner who never gave them the chance to DECIDE how they would safeguard themselves from it.I'm a very clean healthy person and would expect the same of whoever a potential partner may be. I know TWO PEOPLE who got it from oral-genital stimulation (and no, I never gave it to anyone, lol).
It's time we wake up and stop with the puritan attitudes and discuss these things openly. Instead of getting upset and mad about being asked to share and getting a blood test.....should all make it just one more thing to do when dating and wanting a relationship that involves sex.
I know that having oral sex can transmit many things too, both for males and females, yet many do it without thinking at all.