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All this work makes me somewhat impulsive when I'm really at wit's end. All you can do is reach out and let her know you're ok with the busy, and ask how you can best fit in. I can say that while we busy ladies are often pains in the ass, it's worth it :)Have you guys talked about what you're looking for?She may be only interested in having fun and companionship right now.It sounds accusatory, and may put her on the defensive.She's having trouble choosing between her future and a guy she really likes. That's why I'm trying to figure out how to phrase it. This is also around the same timing that the last 2 girls I dated disappeared on me, so that plays into it for sure.She obviously likes your company but she has other priorities that take precedence over a relationship right now.When one person is more invested than the other, it leads to a lot of pain.She cancelled on a "maybe" date on sunday because she still had a lot of reading to do for school.I asked if she was free at all this week and she says "maybe" thursday.
If you want a relationship, then you need to find someone else because I don't think this girl can give that to you and you're going to end up very, very hurt if you continue down this path. I meant to bring it up on our last date but I lost my nerve.I'm trying to be really sympathetic to her crazy life situation, and I'm not expecting her to make me a huge priority this early on in dating. Which may mean something, and it may mean absolutely nothing.When we started seeing each other I felt pretty sure she wasn't seeing other people. I don't even know if she wants a relationship or something casual (I'm looking for something more serious and exclusive), and we need to have that discussion, but it's impossible to even find a good time to do that now.We instantly hit it off, great chemistry, slept together on the first date (and every date after). We've been texting daily, the sex is amazing, and when we're together, it's super affectionate, cuddly, hand-holdy, puts her arm around me at the bar sorts of things. Her only day off is wednesday, she works weekends and usually has to get up at 5am.
She talks about wanting me to meet her friends, things we should do in the future, etc. She genuinely seems exhausted and tells me she sometimes gets home and accidentally falls asleep for hours.my BF and I both have insane schedules (he is getting his Ph D, I work full time and take classes), we do this all the time and it's helped a if she says no because she's "worried you'll distract her"... And the reason I haven't had these conversations with her yet are Thanks. She has this party/wild lifestyle on the side, so I'd sometimes invite her to things in that vein because it looked like she was still into that when I started seeing her. But it feels like now she just can't commit to plans with me.