Boyfriend looking at online dating sites
When a guy is crazy about a woman, he does whatever is in his power to make her his girlfriend.If he fails to do that, she’s just ignoring the writing on the wall. Since I founded Great Boyfriends.com, I've become hyperaware; it's a HUGE problem. So yes, the poor bugger needs to be confronted, but not with one of those grim "I thought we were a couple" convos. You've stumbled onto the most heinous secret of online dating. And as I’ve said in a previous blog post, you are as valuable as your options.If you are a 27 year old woman, you’re at the top of the dating totem pole. If you’re on a website and legitimately have the option of being able to land the cutest, smartest, most successful person out there, it’s hard to blame you for it, isn’t it?
On the other hand, the average man has to write ten emails to get two replies – and rarely, if ever, receives an unsolicited contact. We spend every single weekend together and love each other. Except I just found out that ALL his online dating site accounts are still active and he logs on to each one once or twice a week. People can become addicted to the excitement of seeing who's checking them out. This is what both genders fail to appreciate about each other. They never consider that those women have dozens of other men courting them. They never consider that those men might be marriage-minded and struggling to find the right fit….
Online dating is truly a leveling of the playing field – not a tilting in the man’s favor.
One way to go is of course to say bye bye baby to the guy who doesn ‘t have the sense to stop shopping in the face of your fabulousness.