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Sure, having a nice place to live would be pretty sweet, but if I can travel and see the world, or even live abroad with my partner instead, then that would make me the happiest person.
I watched something recently where a very wise person said, look for qualities in a partner like you would look for in a roommate.
I was going through a lot, and I know my friends are here for me, but I also know they have a lot on their own plates right now. And just how others sharing their problems with me eventually became a stress in my life, I didn’t want to become that person to them. A milestone is fast approaching, and I’ve been reading some of my old posts and realised I’m still moaning about the same things from 3 years ago! Whilst hearing about some scandalous news from my hometown (so and so being in a secret relationship and whatnot), my mother decided to turn on me. You’re not getting any younger, don’t you care about your future? And even though they give me a hard time now and again, I understand it could be far worse.
When you have younger siblings ‘of age’ at home and you’re the one that’s causing the bottle neck effect, the pressure is on another level. I want a partner, but I don’t want to do anything about it.
I know it sounds so random, and I always hug my family and friends whenever I see them, but it wasn’t what I wanted. It’s at that point I thought ‘this is the time I wish I had a partner who I could go to for a big fat hug, bury my head in their chest and hide from the world, whilst they reassured me that everything will be alright’.
People are like ‘wow, she’s got a cool job and is always doing amazing things’, but what they don’t see is what is happening behind the scenes.